{"id":230,"date":"2006-12-10T10:03:00","date_gmt":"2006-12-10T09:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.widmann.org.uk\/?p=230"},"modified":"2006-12-10T10:03:00","modified_gmt":"2006-12-10T09:03:00","slug":"phyllis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/phyllis\/","title":{"rendered":"Phyl(lis)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Writing about my name made me realise there’s another name I ought to write about.<\/p>\n

One of the reasons I call myself Thomas<\/i> in English, and not Tom<\/i>, Tommy<\/i> or Big Tam<\/i>, is that Danish names are almost never abbreviated \u2013 Thomas<\/i>, Tom<\/i>, Tommy<\/i> and Mads<\/i> are all considered different names \u2013 so I felt I was changing my name if I abbreviated it. Funnily enough, I’ve never had any problems with short forms of names in Russian and Georgian… I wonder whether it’s because it’s an aspect of Anglophone culture they forgot to mention at school.<\/p>\n

Another aspect is that from languages like German, Russian and Georgian, I kind of expected shortened names to be used only by friends and family. The way some guys called Thomas<\/i> here are universally known as Tommy<\/i> often strikes me as odd.<\/p>\n

\"Phyllis<\/a>Anyway, to get to the point, when I got a new officemate four years ago called Phyllis<\/i>, I noticed of course that most people called her Phyl<\/i>, but I didn’t feel comfortable using this familiar form myself without getting her permission \u2013 I guess I more or less expected her one morning to turn around and say: “Please call me Phyl!” However, this never happened, and I thus continued calling her Phyllis<\/i>, even after we fell in love and she moved in with me.<\/p>\n

\nAnd now this weird thing is happening: Many people who have never ever called her Phyllis<\/i> are now switching to this form \u2013 I guess they think she’s told me she prefers that form, but that’s not the case. I think she might have thought it was cute that I used a different form of her name, but I honestly don’t think she ever expect other people to switch too!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Writing about my name made me realise there’s another name I ought to write about. One of the reasons I call myself Thomas in English, and not Tom, Tommy or Big Tam, is that Danish names are almost never abbreviated \u2013 Thomas, Tom, Tommy and Mads are all considered different names \u2013 so I felt I was changing my name if I abbreviated it. Funnily enough, I’ve never had any problems with short forms of names in Russian and Georgian… I wonder whether it’s because it’s an […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94,159,105,117],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-en","category-featured","category-linguistics"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/230","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=230"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/230\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=230"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=230"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=230"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}