{"id":7111,"date":"2013-06-21T00:21:16","date_gmt":"2013-06-20T23:21:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.widmann.org.uk\/?p=7111"},"modified":"2013-06-21T00:21:16","modified_gmt":"2013-06-20T23:21:16","slug":"a-new-definition-of-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/a-new-definition-of-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"A new definition of marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><figure style=\"width: 240px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/pgautier\/3325979250\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm4.staticflickr.com\/3612\/3325979250_2cf8659206_m.jpg\" alt=\"Anna and Daddy\" width=\"240px\" class=\"size-thumbnail\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/pgautier\/3325979250\/\">Anna and Daddy<\/a>, a photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/pgautier\/\">PhylB<\/a> on Flickr.<\/figcaption><\/figure>A few years ago, <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.widmann.org.uk\/2009\/07\/15\/1380\/\">I wrote<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n[T]he state could treat you as married if you had either had a child together or lived together for three years, and it could treat you as divorced if you had either \u201cmarried\u201d somebody else through the above-mentioned actions or lived apart for two years.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Now an Indian high court judge seems to have had the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dnaindia.com\/india\/1849807\/report-couples-who-have-premarital-sex-to-be-considered-married-madras-high-court\">the same idea<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\nThe court said that if a bachelor has completed 21 years of age and an unmarried woman 18 years, they have acquired the freedom of choice guaranteed by the Constitution. &#8220;Consequently, if any couple choose to consummate their sexual cravings, then that act becomes a total commitment with adherence to all consequences that may follow, except on certain exceptional considerations.<\/p>\n<p>The court said marriage formalities as per various religious customs such as the tying of a mangalsutra, the exchange of garlands and rings or the registering of a marriage were only to comply with religious customs for the satisfaction of society.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This is brilliant!  In a Scottish context, this would men that if two people are sixteen years old and have sex, they&#8217;re married.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a beautiful simplification of marriage, but I do wonder when you divorce according to the Madras court &#8212; unless that&#8217;s automatic as well, lots of people will end up multiple bigamists!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few years ago, I wrote: [T]he state could treat you as married if you had either had a child together or lived together for three years, and it could treat you as divorced if you had either \u201cmarried\u201d somebody else through the above-mentioned actions or lived apart for two years. Now an Indian high court judge seems to have had the the same idea: The court said that if a bachelor has completed 21 years of age and an unmarried woman 18 years, they have acquired [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94,159],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-en"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7111"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7111\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/widmanniana.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}